No one in this world wld want to be imprisonment in their own country...but at times w/o realisin it,our system is doin it...sis came along wif bro-in-law...had a discussion on 377...coz sis wanted to show 'orang kiter'(alah yg tulis surat tu) who is a permanent writer in dat website...Ok,i've surfed fridae b4 n i tot its de only website available for de sg community apparently this site is very very much fofula wif de community...its trevvy...check it out but be sure to haf an open mind when surfin it...not wif de normal negative mindset...So today i went surfin since hubby is down for nite shift(fyi this is de 1st time i'm tryin to sleep at my own home wif my 3 kids...so far so good...de time now is 12.15am n I'm alone at de comp room typin this down...berani seyyy orang tu!!!)ok back to de story mornin glory...skrg kan gomen sibuk ttg isu 377...nak mansuhkan ke tidak eh???Me neither pro nor against it...i haf my reasons...bukan pengecut tapi adakalanya duduk atas pagar ni ada baiknya(berat2 pun pagar tak roboh tau)...
Initially I'm like maybe most of de ppl out there...but it chged a bit after hearin my sis point of view n also surfin de site(it helps alot actually)...sebenarnyer takde pun satu manusia mahu ditindas...cuba cari manusia mana yg suka ditindas? tak buat salah tapi kenapa ditindas? mmg dari segi moral atau hukum alam salah tapi who r we to judge? We r juz humans...To err is human...gomen pun byk buat salah dan silapnyer...furthermore we r juz a secular country bukan mcm M'sia yg mmg negara Islam jadi hukum hakamnyer ada menyentuh ttg agama...Gomen kiter bukan org Islam yg nak kena ikut syariat Islam...so wats wif de big huh hah?
To conserve our east culture@adat ketimuran...is there such a thing? Adat tu sebenarnya hukum sebab tu ada peribahasa "biar mati anak jangan mati adat"...Oklah kalau kiter tgk balik citer2 lama P.Ramlee, byk citer kesultanan ada menyelitkan adegan sabung ayam...orang kiter nie bole dikatakan kaki judi dari zaman nenek moyang sampailah skrg...baca ajelah citer rakyat lama2 mcm Pak Kadok yg kalah pasal menyabung ayam...skrg ramai benar yg beratur...is gamblin a moral thing? Oh yes, talkin abt gamblin, due to 'speed' up de economic growth, gomen agreed to haf not one but 2 IRs...so is gomen doin de rite thing? Transvetite, why do gomen accept their chg in identity? Is it scientifically correct? Cohabit of opposite sexs, is it morally rite? Tak kawen tapi tinggal serumah...is it ethical? Civil marriage between a muslim n a non-muslim, is it religiously rite? Convertin of religions...org Islam convert christian, org christian convert Islam...Why do we haf to respect ppls' decision? Coz we r a secular country...so being a secular country shldnt we allow freedom in practices? Ok I'm not too sure how true this is, but according to wat my sis read, she said this community can actually suppress their desire(or need?)... so i find it alrite if they publicly claim that they belong to de community but clean frm doin de immoral thing...tapi kalau buat pun they dont actually cause any probs...I know its immoral n religiously incorrect but at least u dont get to read dead babies found in rubbish chute or dumpster or mana2lah yg bole disumbatnya...Orang lain sibuk nak anak, yg tak nak buang2 anak...also at least they dont resort to chgin their physique to be a transvetite...
Gomen ni sebenarnya takut...our growth population is actually decreasing...we r already facin probs wif career minded couple who refuse to haf kids(ada bole kata lebih mulia jaga binatang dari jaga anak!!!wat de %*&@???)so by encouring such community to grow, our population will juz keep on decreasing...gomen nak anak sgt that is why gomen is givin out incentives bukannya pro-family ke or pasal nak promote family awareness...Kalau nak dikiralah eh...this community actually contribute alot to de nation...juz look at our showbiz industry...singers,
songwriters,actors,journalists...ok digress sikitlah eh...why eh ppl in de showbiz n those yg arty-farty ni slalu in de community? Can anyone tell me???
Sebenarnya kehidupan kiter nie mestilah berbalik kepada agama...adanyer agama adalah pegangannyer...baca ajelah sirah nabi lut a.s yg menyentuh ttg isu sebegini...
sesungguhnyer ada sebabnyerlah Allah s.w.t turunkan bala pada kaum lut...Kiter sendiri masih mencari Allah...bagaimana dgn diorg yg belum mencari? Ada yg mmg tahu agama but juz need ppl to guide or remind them constantly...Kalau kiter asyik mencemuh golongan sebegini...semakin jauhlah kehidupan mereka...Gomen inikan bila ckp isu moral adalah nak sentuh pasal agamalah...but in actual fact we are not allow to touch on religion...kalau ckp pasal agama nie ada ajelah gomen ckp tak bole...yg wakilkan suara2 org kiter pun membisu...kalau buat senyap2 nanti kena sumbat ISA...oklah kiter ni pun org gomen jadi tak bole nak ckp byk2...
So rumusannyer...gua hormati golongan sebegini...gua tak benci atau pandang hina golongan sebegini atau yg sewaktu dgnnyer...kiter sebenarnya serupa cuma naluri yg berbeza-beza...walau apa2 pun gua tak pro berlandaskan atas sebab2 agama gua...iaitu Islam...
